Pure love is Divine Love which requires nothing in return. Judgment is a projection of self onto another; diverting attention from what we do not want to be discovered of the shadows we possess. Everyone has issues, we are here to address them, learn from them, grow up, let go, learn to love. Forgiveness means to let go of conditions, expectations, demands, manipulations. Love without conditions means we choose to see the good in a person, in a situation, with out discrimination.
In yoga our Namaste is all about Unconditional love. The Divine light of God in me sees and recognizes that same Divine light of God within you. Love without conditions, without expectations, without demands. Pure Love!
To all I give all a Zen Hug, in love.